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"Nothing's Up With My Vagina"

Wednesday, October, 8, 2008

My rabble-rousing (and rebel-rousing) intern Khadijah Robinson is under fire and getting much attention at Spelman where she’s an undergrad student. She recently wrote an op-ed for her student newspaper (entitled “Nothing’s Up with My Vagina”), that has stirred up so much attention, she was asked on the radio Friday night opposite the president of Morehouse to discuss her piece. 

Here’s the background on what Khadijah, our budding feminist, wrote about:

At a mock pageant on her all-female campus, the men of Morehouse (an all-male campus) competed in a talent show competition for charity. One of the entrants played the song “What’s up with that P**sy?” after another male student mocked a rape situation that occured on campus previously. All in all, it was a disturbing night for the Spelman women on campus.

Here is the beginning of the piece and a link to the full article:

 

 

Nothing’s Up With My Vagina


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Khadijah Robinson - Associate Opinions Editor

There is a time and a place for everything. It’s old knowledge, and yet, it seems so new to some.

For those in attendance at Spelman’s Mr. Senior Pageant, there is no denying the abundance of tomfoolery throughout the entire event. What is now being debated is the placement of blame and the repercussions for what transpired. Are we all adults and able to withstand a bit of profanity? Are we being overly sensitive when speaking about past, somewhat embarrassing events such as rapes and blogs? Are we taking it too seriously when we demand that some sort of action be taken?

No, we are not.

We talk of personal responsibility, yet no one seems to demonstrate any. The main problem, which makes Spelman students appear to be so reactionary, is that we expect more from Morehouse students than obviously should be expected. We expect for Morehouse Men to know that some things are degratory and should not be done, especially within our gates. But they have shown us time and time again that they do not know and apparently do not care. We cannot expect anything from men who expect nothing from themselves. So, in the future, Spelman has to learn to clearly outline what is and isn’t acceptable and force Morehouse students to adhere to these guidelines, as they are incapable of making these educated decisions on their own...

Click here to read the rest of the op-ed.


krrobi
krrobi
Posted Wed, 10/08/2008 - 10:19
Superb essay! Reading this makes me want to be reactive, too. In fact, It makes me want to punch some of those "what's up with that P**%%?" guys right in the face. Love this post.
steffdav
steffdav
Posted Wed, 10/08/2008 - 12:15
Agreed. I'm so proud of her for saying something. I feel like a lot of college-age women don't want to appear too feminist to the men in their peer group. It takes some serious balls, as well as a vagina, to take a stand on this issue publicly. Stephanie Editor of skirt! Atlanta
getaclewis
getaclewis
Posted Wed, 10/08/2008 - 10:59
She is right to be outraged. Rape is hardly a mere "embarrassment." Nor is it a topic for farce. Her courage should be applauded. "Trust Life's unfolding..."
Sara Conrad
Sara Conrad
Posted Wed, 10/08/2008 - 17:31
I'm soooo glad she said something and really happy that she published it. Women in college and the workplace are afraid to say what they think among their male peers because to appear "too feminist" in college usually won't get you dates or make you male friends and in the workplace it can also(sadly) work against you. Girls learn at an early age that to please men is a way to get them to listen...but then some of those women, the budding feminists, find that pleasing others first is only a trap, because those who like you for saying only what they want to hear never really listen to what you say anyway. And then you're stuck supporting men who don't support you as a human being.It's kind of like supporting your own demise out of politeness--and this politeness is still rewarded behavior for girls. ~Sara
vlmccauley
vlmccauley
Posted Wed, 10/08/2008 - 19:45
I hate that it happened, but I LOVE, LOVE this chicks spunk!
hnagel
hnagel
Posted Thu, 10/09/2008 - 11:03
is disturbing. What upset me the most was the understandable reaction of a rape victim in the audience and the statement that the offending parties still saw nothing wrong with what they did. If that's the case, I wonder if they would be willing to do an encore performance in front of their mothers or sisters? Or would that be of poor taste and offensive?! Unbelievable.
steffdav
steffdav
Posted Thu, 10/09/2008 - 11:31
Good point on the mothers and sisters. I have a feeling that would change their whole perspective on things. Stephanie Editor of skirt! Atlanta
bbengts
bbengts
Posted Fri, 10/10/2008 - 08:19
I honestly can't believe this even happened. I come from a very liberal state, where men don't dare open a door for a woman, and I could never imagine anything like that happening on a UC campus. But then again, I couldn't imagine it happening on any of the campuses here, either. I guess there's more to fight for than I thought.